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Sara and Trevor: Tea Ceremony

Posted by on Sep 2, 2010 in Decor & Details | 5 Comments

The holiday weekend approaches and somehow I find myself alone in the office, reminiscing on wedding weekends past!  Since I won’t be blogging for the rest of the weekend, I thought I’d leave you guys with part one of two from one of our favorite weddings of the Season- Sara and Trevor’s Asian fusion wedding celebration as shot by Karen Wise.  I had posted Sara’s Inspiration to Actuality with some hints of what the wedding looked like a few weeks ago, but today, I’m breaking out (almost) the whole enchilada.

Sara’s family is originally from China, and so it was very important that we incorporate a full-fledged tea ceremony into their wedding day.  The more that we thought about it, the more we felt it would be beneficial to start the day off with the tea ceremony for only their immediate families and the wedding party, then take a short break for guests to rest and change before the more traditionally “Western” ceremony later that evening at Studio 450.  We had toyed with using hotel suites for this part of the day, but ultimately decided that their home would be best, and more homey.

Sara started the day in her red Chinese wedding gown which she had custom made. Trevor, as is the custom arrived with his groomsmen in tow ready to play some games and “earn” the right to see his bride.  This is one of the most fun and awesome parts of a Chinese tea ceremony (which has different traditions from a Korean or Japanese tea ceremony).  First they guys had to “pay” to gain entry to the house and then they had to play a series of games including being fed baby food and an eating contest before Sara actually emerged to greet her groom and the tea ceremony itself would begin.  The actual tea ceremony involves many, many, many cups of tea poured and served to the bride’s parents, the groom’s parents and of course, the bride and groom itself.  I love being a part of a tea ceremony, first because it’s a very intimate ceremony, and a wonderful chance for the families and close friends to gather together in a more casual (and fun) way and see the coming together of two families.  But, secondly, I think that the concept of sharing food and drink is a universal concept and way of saying “welcome” and “thank you”, even if you aren’t a part of that culture.

After the tea ceremony was over, Karen took the couple down to the seaport for a fun little photo shoot.  Weren’t they just adorable? Coming up this afternoon, Sara and Trevor ‘s western ceremony and reception.

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5 Comments

  1. kwpang
    September 2, 2010

    it’s really nice to see a Chinese wedding ceremony other than Asia, mix of 2 different culture is always something very special, as a wedding photographer i always love shooting cross-culture wedding.

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  2. Josie
    September 2, 2010

    I really like the emphasis on family that the tea ceremony highlights. This one sounds lovely – and Sara’s gown is stunning and fits her like a glove.

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  3. Miss Indian Bride
    September 3, 2010

    I LOVE the red asian inspired gown!! It’s really is so nice to see Chinese tradition here!

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  5. Kendall Fowler
    September 3, 2010

    I really love the red Chinese Cheongsam wedding dress

    http://www.wedding-resource.com/2010/09/03/wedding-tea-ceremony/

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